Are we loyal?

Loyalty is a devotion, duty and special attachment to somebody or something. Loyalty is often talked about, but rarely demonstrated. Athletes are not loyal to the hometown team, coaches leave players for better paying teams, fans are somewhat loyal, until the winning stops, and then they look for the next frontrunner to support.

I want to be a loyal person. I want to be loyal to God and the ministry He has given me. I certainly want to be loyal to Pam and our covenant of marriage. I want to be loyal to my children and to my friends.  Although relatively low in importance and high in carnality, I want to be loyal to the teams I have cheered for since childhood.

When I moved to Colorado, lots of people chided me for rooting for the Cowboys instead of the hometown Broncos.  It was all good natured and we have had a lot of laughs about it. But, when pushed on the issue, I tell people that I have always cheered for the Cowboys since I was a small boy growing up in Northwest Louisiana.  Staubach, Dorsett, Too Tall Jones, Harvey Martin, DD Lewis, Newhouse, Irvin, Emmitt, and Landry were my heroes. To root primarily for another team has never been an option. It’s a loyalty issue for me.

This season, the Broncos got off to a 6-0 start and the local fans were ecstatic and people were piling on the bandwagon. When the team sputtered to a 2-8 finish, local emergency rooms were full with people with broken ankles after jumping off the bandwagon.

I know these are worldly issues, but I am convinced that sports loyalties are a window into the soul. We certainly should not worship sports or make sports an idol, but if we say we are a fan of a team then mean what you say. Root for them when they win and stick with them when they stink.

Ultimately, loyalty to God and to others is much more critical. When tested, I want to be a loyal follower of Christ and a loyal friend. I want my devotion and my duty to be the same in the good times and in the bad times. Loyalty is a virtue that is hard to find in our culture today and when I spot it in others, I mark them as a person that I want as a friend.

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  1. Yes and amen. Nate stayed loyal to Drew Bledsoe, following him from team to team. (They went to high school together.) I think that still counts. As a result, our oldest doesn’t like either Tom Brady or Tony Romo. Hee-hee.

  2. I don’t think the majority of us are. I have been the victim of the BBD WAY to many times. The BBD is the Bigger Better Deal. Someone makes a commitment to you. Then the day you are expecting them to show up. You start getting the excuses. And they are LAME. What really happened is they got a better offer. The better deal. Instead of helping you move some firewood like they promised, they headed off to a cabin in the woods for the weekend with an all inclusive fishing guide. Who did they go with. Someone they hardly know.

    If you are characterized by the BBD. You are the bandwagon sports guy. You are they guy who will leave his wife and kids. You will jump jobs every year or two. I know who you are and I do my best to stay away from chronic BBD’ers.

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